Dear Robert, I have attended your recent workshop organised by the bank and find it very interesting and helpful. Ishare the same concern as Kelly. I am getting married in Malaysia thisNovand I recently learnt that my husband's brother is getting married in Bangkok in Jan 06. The wedding dates are less than 2 months apart. The brothers do not believe in the chinese custom and the wedding arrangements have been made for both parties, so it's not possible to delay the wedding dates. I am now in such big dilemma that I am not really looking forward to my upcoming wedding. Would greatly appreciate if you could shed some lights on my worries. 1. If both couples were to attend each other's wedding, what could be the consequences? 2. If my brother and sister-in-laws were to attend our wedding, but we do not attend theirs, would it still be harmful to us? Many thanksin advance. The vexed bride-to-be
