[Who's the breadwinner in family business?]

Dear Robert
Since my husband and I both run our restaurant and I am the chef, whose reading should we follow?? I know you have advised that we should follow the breadwinner's reading but in our case who is the breadwinner?
Regards
Carol Ko

[Which partner's good direction to follow]

I would like to know which direction to place the head of our bed if my husband's good direction is SW and mine is N. Some people have told me that we should point out feet not heads in the direction of the wife's good direction. Please advise soonest.
Thank you.
CKo