[Is there a way to fix incompatible bazi?]

Thank you for your response! Based on what you said is the ba zi chart "extremely incompatible"? 

Also, can you please elaborate on how we can have more binding elements?

Is it also possible to determine which incompatibility and possible conflict is found in the ba zi?

Thank you!

[Is there a way to fix incompatible bazi?]

I was wondering if having an incompatible bazi means the end of the relationship even if we get along really well? (F Aug 4, 1996 13:30 born and M Mar 28, 1991 no hour) Is it possible for us to work it out or make it better? Guy also has a rat mom and has very good relationship with mom while girl has ox mom but is always arguing with her mom.