I am a weak fire. 4/7/70 is my birth date, In reading my free pillars of destiny it seems that every other 5 years of my life time may be is auspicious, but the overall 10 year break down is inauspicious. what can I do to balance my weak fire to insure a more auspicious 10 year cycle? Should I take on a Chinese name? My American name is carlisha.