myfs_90272 Posted February 21, 2005 Share Posted February 21, 2005 Dear Master CecilLately learnt quite alot about bazi, thanks to your Forum.Now like to ask, I am a strong metal and my daughter is also a strong metal, does it mean that getting along with each other is difficult and that we will not favour each other or benefit each other? We do not sleep in the same bedroom so I can't paint our bedroom wall the colour of our combined element. So what can be done? Thank You so much for your kind help,Paris Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff Cecil Lee Posted February 21, 2005 Staff Share Posted February 21, 2005 Dear Paris,1. Firstly this message is to all users. Geomancy.net has always tried our best to provide free reports as possible. But because of high costs of providing server resources etc... do support us thru either sponored links or other waysetc...2. Since there are many permutations of e.g. strong metal vs strong metal, weak metal vs strong metal etc... To check on what are the such favourable combinations of elements, feel free to use the free comparison report under http://www.geomancy-online.com3. Nowadays, again, I notice many users simply post a few lines:My or family's Date of birth are.......My house is 50 degrees....And expect at the next log-in, their case to be miraculously done up for them. It is so easy to post these information, but imagine the work needed. Furthermore, many of these does not benefit everyone as it is specific to that individual, their family and home! Please be considerate! 4. Similarly, some user tend to posts a string of questions in one message. And often, I open the file, review it, close it. open it and never open it again. 5. Please avoid posting also questions like my sector is #5, #4, #2 tell me the cure? Some people just reguritate the free Flying Star report and expect answers. For those, why not use the paid Flying Star report? instead etc... or do it yourself if you can.6. In terms of the Five Elements concept; in terms of personality clashes, both strong metal is said to be not as compatible with each other. But this is again academic. And, often, try your best to work on the Human aspect. Since you are the parent, one has the opportunity to in my opinion, work your best to make your daughter as both a friend and good parent.In fact, with the enhancement of humanities and social studies; I believe, this area has far more to offer than what Ba zi can at the moment.What we do not wantto see is "auto-suggestion" or self-fulfilling prophecies.I am more in favour of applying traditional tested tools like Shapes and Forms Feng Shuiand/or Flying StarFeng Shui to enhance our earth luck.Butwhat you havehas much to do with Human luck factors - i.e. relationship with daughter etc... This is where earth luck has less of an influence than human (relationship bonding ) luck.This is why, often, some people may only have average earth (Feng Shui) luck but because of excellent family bonding; they could do more than those who solely rely on just earth luck!Drawing a parallel: A hobbist often has the passion! While someone who is told to place a water feature for luck, may not often do as well as a hobbist! Think about that!Warmest Regards,CecilOn 2/21/2005 5:19:28 AM, Paris Chee wrote: Quote Dear Master CecilLately learnt quite alot aboutbazi, thanks to your Forum.Now like to ask, I am a strongmetal and my daughter is alsoa strong metal, does it meanthat getting along with eachother is difficult and that wewill not favour each other orbenefit each other?We do not sleep in the samebedroom so I can't paint ourbedroom wall the colour ofour combined element. So whatcan be done?Thank You so much for yourkind help,Paris Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Staff Cecil Lee Posted February 21, 2005 Staff Share Posted February 21, 2005 Dear Mothers,I don't like to sound like an MCP (Male chalvanistic pig) but I do seem to see many mothers in this forum worring unnecssarily because of reading too much "In-the-name-of-Feng Shui" issues.I understand the concern of many mums for their family. But if you are a mother, I strongly recommend that you see this show:Executive Decisionreference: http://movies.warnerbros.com/ed/Stuart Baird, Kurt Russell, Steven Seagal, Halle Berry, JohnLeguizamo, Oliver Platt, Joe Morton, David Suchet, BD Wong, Len Cariou,In my opinion, the most meaningful part is where "Kurt Russell who only had some knowledge of handling a small plane, had no choice but to pilot the boeing jumbo jet. With Halle Berry at his side.At the point of emergency landing Halle Berry was assisting Kurt Russell with reminders on what to do and not to do. And later when Kurt Russell almost panic! Halle Berry.. said " JUST, FLY THE PLANE !"For example, like the question on should we pay "homage" i.e. pray to Tai Sui? Imagine this, many of the forum users would be at least 25 years or more especially for mothers. And if one has never prayed to Tai Sui in the past, should not suddenly pray to Tai Sui. Even if we do, are we going to pray to him/her for the rest of our "miserable" life? Our life would really indeed become miserable if we everyday we have to remember this, fear this fear that. Warmest Regards,Cecil Quote On 2/21/2005 7:09:31 AM, Anonymous wrote:Dear Paris,1. Firstly this message is toall users. Geomancy.net hasalways tried our best toprovide free reports aspossible. But because of highcosts of providing serverresources etc... do support usthru either sponored links orother waysetc...2. Since there are manypermutations of e.g. strongmetal vs strong metal, weakmetal vs strong metal etc...To check on what are the suchfavourable combinations ofelements, feel free to use thefree comparison report underhttp://www.geomancy-online.com3. Nowadays, again, I noticemany users simply post a fewlines:My or family's Date of birthare.......My house is 50degrees....And expect at the next log-in,their case to be miraculouslydone up for them. It is soeasy to post theseinformation, but imagine thework needed. Furthermore, manyof these does not benefiteveryone as it is specific tothat individual, their familyand home! Please beconsiderate!4. Similarly, some user tendto posts a string of questionsin one message. And often, Iopen the file, review it,close it. open it and neveropen it again.5. Please avoid posting alsoquestions like my sector is#5, #4, #2 tell me the cure?Some people just reguritatethe free Flying Star reportand expect answers. For those,why not use the paid FlyingStar report? instead etc... ordo it yourself if you can.6. In terms of the FiveElements concept; in terms ofpersonality clashes, bothstrong metal is said to be notas compatible with each other.But this is again academic.And, often, try your best towork on the Human aspect.Since you are the parent, onehas the opportunity to in myopinion, work your best tomake your daughter as both afriend and good parent.In fact, with the enhancementof humanities and socialstudies; I believe, this areahas far more to offer thanwhat Ba zi can at the moment.What we do not wanttosee is "auto-suggestion" orself-fulfilling prophecies.I am more in favour ofapplying traditional testedtools like Shapes and FormsFeng Shuiand/or FlyingStarFeng Shui to enhanceour earth luck.Butwhat youhavehas much to do withHuman luck factors - i.e.relationship with daughteretc... This is where earthluck has less of an influencethan human (relationshipbonding ) luck.This is why, often, somepeople may only have averageearth (Feng Shui) luck butbecause of excellent familybonding; they could do morethan those who solely rely onjust earth luck!Drawing a parallel: A hobbistoften has the passion! Whilesomeone who is told to place awater feature for luck, maynot often do as well as ahobbist! Think aboutthat!Warmest Regards,CecilOn 2/21/2005 5:19:28 AM, ParisChee wrote:Dear Master CecilLately learnt quite alotaboutbazi, thanks to your Forum.Now like to ask, I am astrongmetal and my daughter isalsoa strong metal, does itmeanthat getting along witheachother is difficult and thatwewill not favour each otherorbenefit each other?We donot sleep in the samebedroom so Ican't paint ourbedroom wallthe colour ofour combinedelement. So whatcan bedone?Thank You so much foryourkind help,Paris Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ehocrys Posted February 22, 2005 Share Posted February 22, 2005 Dear Master CecilSorry if I had been a nuisance and posted a stupid question. Do forgive my ignorance. You are right that mothers have alot to worry and perhaps worry unnecessarily. Of course we will try our best to improve our relationships with our children. The only worry is that if bazi is inborn or innate, no matter how hard one tries to be nice and friendly, may not be able to overcome or change the fate.Anyway, thank you very much and grateful for your prompt reply.Best RegardsParisYahoo! Mobile- Download the latest ringtones, games, and more! Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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