Weak water and compatibility

[myfs_93265]

Dear Master,

With regards to Ba Zi element compatibility between two persons, if both belong to weak water element, are they considered incompatible match?

Best regards

[Cecil Lee]

These are some considerations:
1. On the contrary: weak water + weak water is like having a "larger" pool of water.
2. Of course; it is is not the same as having say a partner that is a STRONG METAL element. As under the productive cycle of the five elements; it is aways better to use an element preceding the weak element to significantly improve it.
3. Thus; an excellent match would be a STRONG METAL person to help the weak water person grow.
4. However; if we look at the lowest common denominator:
4.1. A weak water person "needs" : Metal and water.
4.2. Thus if both parties are weak water; the share the same or similar favourable elements: Metal and water.
5. Contrast this to a STRONG FIRE partner of say a weak water person. This two combinations are considered as not suitable. Same as a STRONG WOOD person with a weak water person. This is equally not auspicious combination.
6. Look at it this way:-
6.1. Let's say a person is a weak wood person. Of course the favourable element of a weak wood person is water and wood.
6.2. However, just think of a weak wood person as a small tiny plant. What helps to make it grow is by adding adequate amounts of water. Of wood is acceptable; but patching the plant with more wood is so-so. As compared to having water to fuel it to grow. (Of course; a strong wood would then later use it's roots to crush the soil ... etc.. this is another point altogether!)

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On 5/1/2011 7:46:18 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Master,
With regards to Ba Zi elemen4t
compatibility between two
persons, if both belong to
weak water element, are they
considered incompatible match?
Best regards

[myfs_152148]

Hello Master,
Sorry to bump this up.
i am born in may 1982 (water, from what i check)
my partner is sept 1991(metal, from what i check too)
when i do a love compatibility, the result is not so good.
The result is :
You have to work it out. It might be great in the beginning but after
the first emotions end you have to put a lot of effort keep it going.
i wonder can our elements strengthen our bond?
Regards.