Ashes of the dead

[ehocrys]

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Subject: Ashes of the dead
Dear Master Cecil
My dad passed away and my sis insisted to put his urn of ashes in my mum's bedroom (wrapped with red cloth) instead of leaving it at the Singapore Casket while they were making his tablet and getting ready his place at the collumbarium.
His urn was put in my mum's room for almost 2 weeks as due to some public holidays in between, the tablet took quite awhile to complete.
Meantime my mum slept in the bedroom where my dad's ashes were. And my sis also burnt white candles infront of his photo and ashes. Although my mum did not feel erie sleeping in this room, please advise if it is no good or inauspicious sleeping in a room with urn of ashes?
Should my mum sleep elsewhere instead ? I do not hv a layout of her house but her room is at E sector. My dad also fell ill in this room and eventually died. My mum also fall ill quite often.
Thanks So Much
Anonymous

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Emily,
1. Ashes of loved ones.
Frankly, since this is only temporary, personally, I feel that there is no harm for the urn to be placed in the home. Ideally, it should be placed in the living room area.
But, since it is only temporary, and even if there is a delay, it is OK to let your sis have her way.
And it is good to light it up.
Since your mum has no issue with this, and since it has already been placed there for some-time, there is no necessity to move it - Since it is your father's ashes. No issue.
2. Often, once it is time to relocate your dad to his new home, please follow the instructions of the temple / final resting place location, to "call" him to his new home.
Often, a simple ritual is to place his urn into his "new home". And afterwards, all family members will "recite or call" to your dad, his new home address within the site.
As this is a trying time for all your family, try not to `create' more stress than necessary, since both your mum and sis are ok to it.
2. East
For a home built or renovated under Period 7, East is often, a location attached to sickness. And there is a higher probabilty for health related issues in this "east" room.
Wishing you all the very best!
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 12/11/2003 4:18:03 AM, Anonymous wrote:
To:
free-advice@forum.geomancy.net
Subject: Ashes of the dead
Dear Master Cecil
My dad passed away and my sis
insisted to put his urn of
ashes in my mum's bedroom
(wrapped with red cloth)
instead of leaving it at the
Singapore Casket while they
were making his tablet and
getting ready his place at the
collumbarium.
His urn was put in my mum's
room for almost 2 weeks as due
to some public holidays in
between, the tablet took quite
awhile to complete.
Meantime my mum slept in the
bedroom where my dad's ashes
were. And my sis also burnt
white candles infront of his
photo and ashes. Although my
mum did not feel erie sleeping
in this room, please advise if
it is no good or inauspicious
sleeping in a room with urn of
ashes?
Should my mum sleep elsewhere
instead ? I do not hv a
layout of her house but her
room is at E sector. My dad
also fell ill in this room and
eventually died. My mum also
fall ill quite often.
Thanks So Much
Anonymous

[ehocrys]

Thank you Master Cecil for your prompt reply.
Yes, you are right. Its a trying time for my family and I should'nt be making a fuss and create unnecessary misunderstanding with my sis.
Incidentally, does the six Chinese coins tied with red string a cure for the East sector?
Thanks
Emily
free-advice Listmanager wrote:
From: Cecil Lee
Dear Emily,
1. Ashes of loved ones.
Frankly, since this is only temporary, personally, I feel that there is no harm for the urn to be placed in the home. Ideally, it should be placed in the living room area.
But, since it is only temporary, and even if there is a delay, it is OK to let your sis have her way.
And it is good to light it up.
Since your mum has no issue with this, and since it has already been placed there for some-time, there is no necessity to move it - Since it is your father's ashes. No issue.
2. Often, once it is time to relocate your dad to his new home, please follow the instructions of the temple / final resting place location, to "call" him to his new home.
Often, a simple ritual is to place his urn into his "new home". And afterwards, all family members will "recite or call" to your dad, his new home address within the site.
As this is a trying time for all your family, try not to `create' more stress than necessary, since both your mum and sis are ok to it.
2. East
For a home built or renovated under Period 7, East is often, a location attached to sickness. And there is a higher probabilty for health related issues in this "east" room.
Wishing you all the very best!
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 12/11/2003 4:18:03 AM, Anonymous wrote:
To:
free-advice@forum.geomancy.net
Subject: Ashes of the dead
Dear Master Cecil
My dad passed away and my sis
insisted to put his urn of
ashes in my mum's bedroom
(wrapped with red cloth)
instead of leaving it at the
Singapore Casket while they
were making his tablet and
getting ready his place at the
collumbarium.
His urn was put in my mum's
room for almost 2 weeks as due
to some public holidays in
between, the tablet took quite
awhile to complete.
Meantime my mum slept in the
bedroom where my dad's ashes
were. And my sis also burnt
white candles infront of his
photo and ashes. Although my
mum did not feel erie sleeping
in this room, please advise if
it is no good or inauspicious
sleeping in a room with urn of
ashes?
Should my mum sleep elsewhere
instead ? I do not hv a
layout of her house but her
room is at E sector. My dad
also fell ill in this room and
eventually died. My mum also
fall ill quite often.
Thanks So Much
Anonymous

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[Cecil Lee]

Dear Emily,
1. I am very glad to hear that you are very thoughtful and considerate during this time for all of you:))
2. Yes, it is worth getting a set of 6 coins (tied with red string) to be placed/hung above your mum's bed.
3. In fact, I personally feel that at this moment, it is good if either one of you sleep or rotate sleeping with your mum. (This is only my suggestion.)
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 12/12/2003 5:39:26 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Thank you Master Cecil for
your prompt reply.
Yes, you are right. Its a
trying time for my family and
I should'nt be making a fuss
and create unnecessary
misunderstanding with my sis.
Incidentally, does the six
Chinese coins tied with red
string a cure for the East
sector?
Thanks
Emily

[Cecil Lee]

Dear Emily,
Further to what I had mentioned:
For your mum's room (as a precaution) try to avoid:
1. Earth colours e.g. yellow, cream or beige
(In general, East sector has bad earth often #2 or #5 or a combination of them).
2. Fire (pink, red or purple).
(The fire element should best be avoided as under the Productive cycle - fire element further helps or fuel bad earth - inflamming it). Especially for the bedsheet or walls or curtain(s)
Please note that is not a standard for East sector, but in general, many of the period 7 , East sectors have (often) #2 or #5.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 12/12/2003 5:53:24 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Emily,
1. I am very glad to hear that
you are very thoughtful and
considerate during this time
for all of you:))
2. Yes, it is worth getting a
set of 6 coins (tied with red
string) to be placed/hung
above your mum's bed.
3. In fact, I personally feel
that at this moment, it is
good if either one of you
sleep or rotate sleeping with
your mum. (This is only my
suggestion.)
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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I have been reading your web site for over a year. Thank you for all you
do
to help us understand the fundamentals of feng shui. I hope my request is
general enough to help many people. You stated there are many ways to
change
to period 8 without much hacking. Could you explain?
We have a new home. West 2/3 . After studying flying star charts we are thinking of re orient to N/w1, or 2/3 if we change to period 8. We do not
have the money for an open roof remodel as I have read is needed. You stated there are many ways you can change to period 8 without much hacking. Could you explain? Any help
is appreciated. Also any consultants you have here in Hawaii that we can trust are as professional as you we would appreciate to know.
Mahalo
Lizn
----- Original Message -----
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To:
Sent: Friday, November 14, 2003 1:34 PM
Subject: Period 7 or Period 8 Houses?
> From: Cecil Lee
>
> Dear Tripp,
>
> These are some of the major considerations:-
>
> 1. First and foremost, one has to consider the Shapes and Forms of a
home.
>
> 2. For majority of homes, many of the leaks or enhancements can be made
to
the home. Thus resulting in a "liveable" home or better.
>
> 3. Frankly, for some homes, it is best to know whether the home has or
(has not) any major leaks.
>
> 3.1 , I mentioned, that one major leak is ok. But if there are two or
more
major leaks, then watch out!
>
> 3.2 In addition, if the leaks are "fundamental" or nearly impossible to
correct - in practical terms.
>
> 3.3 Take the recent case of a home that was consulted by two
practitioners.
>
> 3.4 This home has 3 "permanent" leaks that cannot be EFFECTIVELY
corrected
(under Earth Luck).
>
> 1st permanent leak: Toilet at the centrepoint and centre of gravity -
and
when one opens the main door (mouth of the house) the toilet is right
`smack' at the location.
>
> Given it is an apartment, there is no such thing as, re-plumbing the
home.
>
> 3.5 2nd permanent leak has to do with the home on (in-fact close to the
ground floor). And there is a service road (exit) point i.e. car movement
leaking wealth (movement of cars create disturbed metal qi as well as like
a
water position moving away wealth in this case.
>
> 3.6 3rd permanent leak is the masterbedroom toilet, which is again
occupying another "major" second "centre-of-gravity" location of "the
other
part of the home".
>
> 4. In addition, ba zi of the occupants are in their inauspicious
periods.
>
> 5. Frankly, given this senario, the odds are heavily stacked here.
>
> 6. The rule-of-thumb in many of such situations is to "cut-losses".
>
> Frankly, under the earth luck (it is not like) there can be a miracle
cure. Any "cure" suggested with regards to the above 3 x permanent leaks
is
akin to taking a sugar coated pill.
>
> 7. However, when often faced with such situation, if the Heaven luck,
and
Earth luck are not so good, then, the last recourse - without moving is to
increase the human or man luck. this can be quite stressful, given often,
finance and quarrels may occur. But this is the most reasonable - stop gap
measure.
>
> 8. Period 7 or Period 8?
>
> For those who are able to understand and utilise Flying Star, should
first
chart out the Period 7 and Period 8 charts.
>
> Here, look at all sectors especially the main door, back room and
especially the bedroom areas.
>
> Please note that : perhaps, unlike your situation, no choice, your house
most likely have to be a Period 8 home, many others who have stayed in
their
current home, can determine if:
>
> Is it worthwhile to keep to Period 7 - perhaps a better chart than
Period
8?
> Or will going to Period 8 be worse-off?
>
> 7. Symbollically, there are many various ways, practitioners can suggest
for a home to go into period 8 WITHOUT MAJOR HACKING for say a period 7 or
earlier home. So, this is not the major issue, here.
>
> As mentioned, what is more critical is : Is it better keeping the home a
Period 6? Period 7 vs a Period 8 home.
>
> This is the fundamental - concern. Since, once we `fly' to Period 8,
there
is NO SUCH THING AS TURNING back the clock.
>
> Once, a home flys to Period 8, it cannot revert back to Period 5, 6, 7
etc.... (While period 9 is quite sometime more! 20 years more .... to be
exact..)
>
> Warmest Regards,
> Cecil
>
>
>
> On 11/14/2003 5:12:49 PM, Tripp Tan wrote:
> >Hi Master Cecil Lee,
>
> The year
> >2003 is the last year in the
> >Period of 7, and from Feb 2004
> >onwards Period of 8 will take
> >over.
>
> I will like to know for
> >homes that are built (i.e.
> >completed and ready for
> >occupation) in 2003, but
> >intending to renovate and to
> >live in only after Feb 2004,
> >does this qualify the house to
> >become a Period of 8 House,
> >instead of Period of 7
> >House?
>
> Does renovating the
> >house heavily (i.e. changing
> >floor tiles, hacking walls
> >etc.) change the house period
> >from Period of 7 to Period of
> >8 house?
>
> Hope to hear your
> >opinion on this. Thanks!
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
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[ehocrys]

Dear Master Cecil
Thank you very much for your prompt advice and suggestion.
We greatly appreciate it.
Emily
free-advice Listmanager wrote:
From: Cecil Lee
Dear Emily,
1. I am very glad to hear that you are very thoughtful and considerate during this time for all of you:))
2. Yes, it is worth getting a set of 6 coins (tied with red string) to be placed/hung above your mum's bed.
3. In fact, I personally feel that at this moment, it is good if either one of you sleep or rotate sleeping with your mum. (This is only my suggestion.)
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 12/12/2003 5:39:26 AM, Anonymous wrote:
Thank you Master Cecil for
your prompt reply.
Yes, you are right. Its a
trying time for my family and
I should'nt be making a fuss
and create unnecessary
misunderstanding with my sis.
Incidentally, does the six
Chinese coins tied with red
string a cure for the East
sector?
Thanks
Emily
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Dear Master Cecil
Thank you very much for your reply on this subject.
Greatly appreciate your help.
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