Conflict of animal sign

[myfs_100352]

Dear Master Cecil,
My sister was born in rat year and her husband was in sheep year. They've been married for about 10 years and over the past 8 years, they've been quarrelling. Is this because of their incompatibility of animal sign. They've stayed in four houses before, is their hostile relationship relates to the house feng shui which they stayed. Will there be any cure to improve their relationship.
TQ & Regards,
Fiona

[Cecil Lee]

Dera Fiona,
To be honest, one area to look at is Feng Shui.
But equally important is many other factors especially that each of our character has been formed throughout our young age.
This is why, most of the time, when we reach 18 or 21, we are allowed to sign a specific signature. As our character component is already comprise of what we are.
Under Chinese horoscope, the only explanation is that the best match for a Rat partner is the dragon or monkey. Whilst the ram is not as a good match. The worst conflict is a horse with rat.
Usually, the major part of Feng Shui is to allow for a good home environment conducive to family life. And from here, the spin-off is that a good family life is the building block or starting point.
Wow! changing 4 homes is indeed often stressful for the couple. Perhaps, this is due to the postings to various parts of the country - for work etc...
Where possible, it is always best to avoid the frequency of too many relocations.
Overall, other than the above, sometimes, it is good to get an outsider e.g. counsellor to help the couple. (although, many times, Chinese often do not like this medium).
This reminds me of the various earlier posting on this subject.
Where, often a new couple, are like two persons thrown into a "jungle".
Both have to adapt to the environment as well to themselves. This classic case that I always remember was that for example, the husband anyhow squeeze toothpaste. And the wife gets really agitated finding this despite her constant yaking over this issue. And often, such small issues often spark into larger issues.
Sometimes, when married too long, if one can have a baby, it would be good. (If they have not have one already).
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 2/17/2004 6:48:43 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Master Cecil,
My sister was born in rat year
and her husband was in sheep
year. They've been married
for about 10 years and over
the past 8 years, they've been
quarrelling. Is this because
of their incompatibility of
animal sign. They've stayed
in four houses before, is
their hostile relationship
relates to the house feng shui
which they stayed. Will there
be any cure to improve their
relationship.
TQ & Regards,
Fiona