Everything posted by Robert Lee
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what is wrong with my life?
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: my life is going upside down for the past 4 years. my love life gone as i just broke off, my business at a standstill with minimums sales coming in, my family at a cashflow problems. i personally owned friends, suppliers, HDB, credits cards/banks, and other money related issues amounted to over $80k!!!!!! Personallythe debts was builtup over times as my business start to go down hill. need money to clearvendors and pay for myfamily and my ownbasic needs. Sold off my car, pawn mygold rings and chains,trade-inmy equipments and etc. now i am left with nothing in my bank, maybe $10 in it. whenever my business pickup and sales coming in, something will happen and cause me to lose more money.actually ireally want to consult you to help me put an end to my problems but not able to due to money. gone are the days (4 yrs back)where i earn over $5k monthly with no worries. when i started business with partners, things started very well, then things happen, partners don't talk, fall out, and i start my own but as happen, things will always start well but always got some thing happen that make it go down drain.i really not sure what to do???????? Frankly, based on our experience there might be several issues that might be inauspicious for a series of bad events to happen. Most of the time it should be closely related to the home / office where you reside in. This is because the Earth Luck feng shui has one of the greatest influence over a person's luck. This will probably have to couple with some inauspicious luck during that period that all come together for such problems. Based on your ba zi, it would seem that 2000-2004 is generally in auspicious period for you especially 2001,2002,2003. These are presence of clashes and harms that impact your luck further. I believe that together with your Earth Luck influence, would probably be the reasons why you have been having issues. [2000 to 2004] (shu-Earth) is an inauspicious period as it does not favour your 5 yearly Luck Period. [2000] geng-chen - Luck with you but Average [1st 6 months] geng - is a little auspicious. [2nd 6 months] chen - is very inauspicious. Earthly Branch Self Punishment: chen Creative Work or Influences Influence: Chen [2001] xin-si - Luck against you but Bad [1st 6 months] xin - is a little auspicious. Heavenly Stem Clash: yi-xin [2nd 6 months] si - is very inauspicious. Earthly Branch Punishment: si-shen Nobleman Stars available to help you: Mao & Si [2002] ren-wu - Luck against you but Bad [1st 6 months] ren - is very inauspicious. [2nd 6 months] wu - is very inauspicious. Earthly Branch Harm: chou-wu Earthly Branch Self Punishment: wu Possible Romance Encounter: Wu [2003] gui-wei - Luck against you but Very Bad [1st 6 months] gui - is very inauspicious. [2nd 6 months] wei - is very inauspicious. Earthly Branch Clash: chou-wei Earthly Branch Punishment: chou-wei Nobleman Stars available to help you: Chou & Wei [2004] jia-shen - Luck with you but Very Good [1st 6 months] jia - is a little auspicious. [2nd 6 months] shen - is a little auspicious. Academic / Study Influences: Shen Frankly, you really need to troubleshoot to find out what are the causes of the problem. I am pretty sure you also have earth luck issues. Because for many things to go very very wrong, a few factors are involved. All I can help you if you want to is provide you with some complimentary paid reports (ie ba zi and flying star), then you can use them to troubleshoot issues you might have. Hopefully, you can attempt to correct whatever flaws you might have or prevent such a situation from happening again. If you are interested, e-mail me at support@geomancy.netwith the contents of this posting and your member account, and I will credit the paid reports into your account. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Can 'prayers' improve relationship
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: I'm having a very bad time with my husband and at the verge of asking for a divorce..feeling very lost, i went to see a fengshui master to get my ba zi reading. Apparentlyour Day stem and branch clashes with each other ie. I'm a Brown tiger and he is a black rat. In addition, we get married on the year which clashes with my husband. He was born in 1972 (rat) and we get married in 2002 ie a horse year. I was told I can 'lessen' the clashes by doing some kind of prayer by him.... and wouldcharging me quite a few hundred dollar... after reading quite of stories abt people being con in the newspaper.. I'mratherworry to bean'easy prey'.. would this kind of 'prayer' help???? .. although I still do understand it still very much lies on our on 'initiative' to get the marriage work. In any relationship, two different persons are involved. In order for a relationship to last, both parties must be able to see and understand each other flaws and willing to give and take so as be able to make a relationship last. This cannot be a one sided effort. As such, no one or anything else help youimprove the relationship. Any clashes in terms of ba zi etc, are just some indications that could be present. But ultimately, it is how much both of you love each other and thus willing to give in that will eventually make or break a relationship. Nothing else really can help you on this unfortunately. The only thing you can do with feng shui is attempt to create an environment (ie binding element wood so room decor in green/brown)that might help smoothen relationship but whether or not it will work still ultimately determine on the two persons involved. So my answer to whether prayer can help. Sorry, it will not help. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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What does this mean?
Dear Anon, In our comparison module, basically we do a direct comparison between the two person based on the various ba zi pillars (ie day/month/year/hour/conception/life pillars). With so many different pillars that are analysed, it is quite common to have some clashes or harms found. Anonymous wrote: Earthly Branch Clash between year pillar (chen) & year pillar (shu). Earthly Branch Harm between year pillar (chen) & day pillar (mao). More important incompatibility isbetween year and year and day and day clash. Reason for these is because your animal sign is derived from the year pillar so if there is a clash that means the animal signs are in conflict. So not a compatible pair based on the horoscope signs. If your day and day clash it means that the birth element may be in conflict with the other person. Since the day of birth defines your day of birth thus a day and day clash is also something to look out. Especially, if it is an heavenly stem clash/harm which is more important. Clash is generally worst that harm. So in the above it simply means that you have an animal sign incompatibility. ie Dragon and Dog not very compatible. So there may be a higher chance of quarrels that might occur. However, ultimately whether a relationship can last depends a lot more between the two persons. If both person are willing to give and take the flaws that each person have, there is no reason why a relationship cannot last. So the analysis is ultimately a guide to see if there are any possible friction or differences that might arise. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng shui Research
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Wedding and Registration
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: As I am planning to get married early next year, I have heard many feedbacks on which date to choose. My mother has heard from a friend that it's not auspicious to pick an odd numbered month (ie: 1,3,5). Is this true? She also added that I should not pick a date this year for next year's wedding as it will "carrying foward" (chak lien in cantonese). Is this true as well? . Frankly, just like auspicious numbers, there are a couple of ways of going about looking for a date. Most people for example just use the Tong Shu to determine which is the auspiciosu date generally suitable for everyone. For us, we try to choose a date that is good in as many areas:- 1. A date should be good in the tung shu especially for day and year should not clash. 2. A date should also be suitable to both the Bride & Groom in terms of the ba zi with as minimium clash/harm as possible. 3. Dates if possible should not clash with the bride and groom animal signs. Most of the time if a clash occurs, then you may not be able to find the best most auspicious dates in that year compared to another one. If you chose based on these, you will less likely to get wrong, as dates favourable to your individual luck will be most suitable for your individual luck as well as if the date does not clash it is generally suitable to most people as well. So you get the best of the two worlds. These kind of analysis is better than saying certain days isn't good or bad. In terms of auspicious dates, there is also general saying that 1st and 15th of lunar calendar are generally most auspicious etc. So there are many many such issues. It is really up to you to determine which way is acceptable for you. Anonymous wrote: As next year's calendar is opening only next month..would I also need to select a date for registration as I heard some say that it is not nessecary and as it is not included in the list of dates, like whento fix cupboard or to send gifts. Please advice. Thanks. Selection of dates for registration is optional. With the many wedding dates I have done, most people normally do not bother about the registration dates. However, since I provided a list of dates for the date range (for example betweenJun 2006-Feb 2007), they are still free to choose a better date for the registration if they wish to. Or when to best send the gifts or an chuan etc. Some users do request for this.But since a range of dates are given to users, they are quite free to select the dates which best fit them. However, ultimately, it is the customary wedding date that is most important. But again all depends on individual, some people are so traditional that even the sending the bridal gift also need to select the best dates etc, others only bother about the actual wedding dates. So really a lot is up to the individual and family. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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human luck
Dear Cheryl, cheryl ludwig wrote: Thank you for your reply. However, even in my human luck, my family is not that close, unfortunately. The closest person to me, my little brother, just passed away. My other brother is in the Navy and travels all the time - has been to Iraq numerous times and helped in the tsunami (the Abraham Lincoln). Anyways, I also am single . I do have some very close friends, whose parents are wonderful to me in a loving way. So, perhaps that counts. I hope so anyways. Yes, any good friends will also count. Just that in most cases family bonding if any would probably be stronger. But that does not mean that good friends will have weaker relationships. Sometimes, friendships can be even stronger than family relationship. Anyway, it is the same borrowing luck from other people is just the same as borrowing luck from people close to you. For example, if you have good relationship with your boss for example, this is also another form of borrowing luck from your boss, as your boss is likely to look out for you etc. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Suitable house facing direction & 4 bad direction
Edited by Robert: Have seen the e-mail you re-send. Hi Anon, Anonymous wrote: I have sent you an email on 24 May 2005. Hope to hear from you soon. Sorry, didn't see any e-mail sent. Please re-send your e-mail. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Stove in bad location
Dear Patty Rown, patty rown wrote: I am moving into a small apartment and the rules are no painting,wallpaper and of course I can not relocate any appliances. Given that you mentioned that you have lots of limitations, it is going hard to be able to suggest anything. And thus, you may have to live with some of the flaws you cannot correct. patty rown wrote: My kitchen is narrow and small and the stove and sink are facing each other,(stove on one side,the sink on the other). Yes, though stove and sink facing each other isn't that ideal. However,therethere is nothing much you can do at this point given that you can relocated anything. But I don't think it will be too bad considering that most small kitchen have such an arrangement due to space constrain. Try correcting other flaws that you are able to correct. patty rown wrote: To top it all off,my master bathroom is the room behind the stove and my toilet is located behind the stove.My Kua # is 8 and my husbands is #2,we are both west groups.The front door of the apartment faces westerly.The kitchen in question is in the East.The stove faces the South side. my bathroom and part of my kitchen share the fame area.Please tell me what I can purchase to off set this bad arrangement. Your help is greatly appreciated. Unfortunately, there is nothing much you can do with such a fixed layout. However, good news I can say is your husband which is Kua 2, and since the house face West, it is generally suitable for your husband. As for you, the house also suits you as as Kua 8, West is Longevity. Ktichen located in the East, would proably be more related to you (or the spouse who mostly use the kitchen more at least most cases are like this). Thus, the kitchen if located East will be Irritation for you which isn't too bad. The only thing I can say is to try to gain luck from other areas such as clothings colours, bedsheet colours or even car colour, career and people around you. Nothing much you can do about your home since there are restriction preventing you to do so. So you can only try to enhance other areas. Remember, that no home is perfect. Having one major flaw will not mean that you are doomed for failure. It just mean that your overall luck will be slightly reduced. So you will need to attempt to compensate from other areas in your life. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Location of Water Ponds at my house
Dear Fanty Fang, Fanty Fang wrote: I want to build house in near future. I want to have water pond since my element is strong fire. My question is where should i build that water pond (facing what direction) ? Frankly, I never like to answer such questions, this is because the only true way to determine which is the best location to place any water feature is to first have a detailed analysis done on the home to find out where are the auspicious stars and how is the surrounding environment. Only then will you know exactly where will be the most beneficial place to place a water feature that can effectively trap wealth. To simply tell you that it is good to place here and there with only considering one analysis, can sometimes be dangerous as not all aspects have been considered. As far as I can advise you here. Under the shapes and forms concept only. A water pond at the frontage of the house is good because you help trap wealth before it leaks to other home. So placing a water feature at the empty land in front of your home is ok. As to whether exactly where it front of your home should be place based on your frontage, you will need to determine that by doing a flying star of the house and find out where is the auspicious water star (ie star 8 for period 8 house). That location would be most beneficial for the water feature. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Sitting direction or facing direction
Robert Lee replied to myfs_108363's topic in 4 Good-Bad Directions/Eight House Suitability (Zai Yun)Dear Hung, Le Viet Hung wrote: My kua is number 3, meaning I belongs to the East group people. My house have the main door facing the SE. One book on 8 houses theory stated that the house kua will be determined by the main door facing, i.e. in this case this house belongs to East group house. So I am suitatble to the house Le Viet Hung wrote: But at the same time, another book stated that the sitting of the house will determine the kua of the house, i.e. NW and therefore the house belongs to the West Group house. So I am not suitatble to the house Frankly, this will really depend on the how you define the facing or sitting direction. Which I must say can be confusing if you get it wrong. As far as our website and all our tools are concerned, Facing direction is related to the center of the compass looking outwards. Meaning that if you say face west. It means that you are standing at the center (East) looking towards West. Or if you take a normal compass your compass should be pointing West from where you stand. So when we say West (metal) is favourable for you means that if the house faces West it will be good for you. Reason for taking this is because West is where the Qi flow will be blowing from and as such where most of the Qi will be coming from. So when you face west, Good Qi is coming from the West into your home. So that is how we determine the facing direction. I am aware that there are some sites which states that you should be be sitting on the good side and face the opposite site. However, as we are talking about how Qi flow enters into the house, this would mean that you sit on your favourable site, it will be the Bad Qi that will be entering into your Home. You see when you talk about facing West your house main door/frontage faces West. As such when Qi flow comes in it comes flowing in from the West towards East. Since West is where the good Qi is from, don't you want these good Qi to be blowing into your home? If you take the other concept where you should sit in your good sector meaning that if West is good, you must sit West and your main door/frontage faces East. Since East isn't favourable for your, Qi flow in from East which is inauspicious, it will be like inviting bad qi into your home. So as far we, our website and tools are concern, when we talk about Facing West, we literally mean your facing direction should face West, this allows good/favourable Qi to flow into the house from the West side. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center Applied Feng Shui Research
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human luck
Dear Cheryl, cheryl ludwig wrote: I was just reading about human luck and that it can help improve Heaven and Earth luck. You went on to say about if you are a "weak person, your life path is not necessarily inauspicious. That your children (other's luck) can help you. I am a "weak wood". And my life has been difficult at times. Does the fact that I'm a weak wood mean that my life path will be hard, no matter what? I have no children. What exactly does weak wood mean and how can I help myself? Please help. Thank you... Being weakor Strong person does not make your life good or bad. It is how your ba zi luck period (ie 10-year/yearly luck) which changes from time to time. Whether such period favour or not favour you. If you find that most of your luck period is inauspicious, that isa clear sign that luck isn't with you most of the time. That means that you will have to work even harder to attain success. This you have to check out your ba zi luck to determine whether your luck is favourable or unfavourable to you. However, even for a person that does not have very auspicious luck period. Your luck can still be improve from the human luck factor, ie borrowing luck from other family members in your life. ie for a husband if the spouse has excellent luck, by being with her or letting her say run key areas of the business, will ultimately improve your overall business as you take advantage of her good luck to allow your business to succeed. Same goes for a family that has very good bonding, when in times of trouble, a strong family bonding will mean that everyone will pitch in whatever they can to help you get through the difficult period. Whereas, if you have weak family bonding, in times of trouble, they will not be there to help you and thus you will have to face the problem all by yourself. That is why I mentioned that having strong Human Luck can help transcent all difficulties and even improve your overall luck. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Career and wealth luck
Dear Anon, Quote: One should work in his/her wealth element career field to enjoy their wealth luck...... Frankly, as long as you work in one of your favourable elements and have favourable elements from your home, colour, and other areas, you will start to enjoy your favourable luck. With favourable luck, means you will be better able to take advantage of your wealth opportunities/luck. So it does not mean that people who does not go into wealth career will not be successful. The goal here is to get as much luck from all the various elements that you lack in your life. Quote: Does that mean that it does not help for the person to work in the wealth element career when that person does not have wealth luck to enjoy in the first place ( i.e. no wealth element in the bazi chart )? Quote: Or should he/she work in the wealth element career to improve their wealth luck? It does not matter if your career is your wealth career or not. What matters most is that say if you are a weak water, and you lack Metal and Water. So by having more elements favourable to you in as many areas of your life, you will then improve your own luck. Once you improve your own luck you will then benefit from any wealth opportunities that you encounter. ie. Career - Advertising (Water element) ie. Housse - East (Wood element) ie. Colours - Car/Bedroom/Clothes (Green/Brown - Wood, Blue/Black/Gray - Water) ie. People / family members - ie water/wood element Once you have as many of these areas in your favour, you will then boost up your existing luck period, year luck (which changes from time to time) so that they will be more suitable for you as such being able to take advantage of any wealth opportunities that come in your way. This is the only way any one can take advantage of their wealth. It is not by just focusing on what is the wealth career/element and only depending on that to bring you luck. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Facing direction of attached plan
Dear Stan Teoh, Stan Teoh wrote: Dear Master Robert, in this case what would be the facing direction for units 06-21? If standing in front of the main door should be South but if taking from the center of the house from the main door would be SW. I'm a bit confused here. Pls help to clarify. Thanks a lot. To simply most people's worry about the facing direction. Actually, whether you take centerpoint to main door or facing drection, both won't go wrong. Why? Simply because, there is macro and micro application of feng shui. When you use take the main door from centerpoint, you are accessing a flying star chart which can only be applied to the 4 walls of your home. Thus, we termed it as micro application of feng shui. The benefit here is that the sector where your man door is located will as so be where your main door is actually located. When take the facing direction, this is a macro application of the flying star, where you can use the same flying star chart to assess even the surrounding of the home (ie exterior feng shui as well). When you use this facing, what happens here is your facing direction is South, but when you superimpose the flying star or eight house chart your main door is located on the South-West sector of the home. This is considered macro application of feng shui. So this same analysis can be extended to view feng shui of the surrounding. Since external Qi flow enters into the house, if you take the macro analysis, you will be able to properly determine the various external qi flow which is ultimately more important than just depending on what luck is available within the 4 walls itself. Both charts will be applicable. So in order to simply and avoid confusion, it is best that users should take the macro feng shui which will generally give you a better ideal of how external Qi will enter into the house. So in this case, based on our definition of the house facing, you just take the 06-21 as South facing house. Will be better. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Moth : I would like to know why there were 3 different size of Moth fly in my house on the same day? Is there any sign of the appear of Moth?
Dear Chong Wee Wei, Chong Wee Wei wrote: I would like to know why there were 3 different size of Moth fly in my house on the same day? Is there any sign of the appear of Moth? They been stay at a corner for 2days. Why this will happen? There isn't anything about Moth and Feng Shui as far as I know of. So I too agree that this is more like insects taking shelter rather than any particular signs. So don't think there is anything to worry about. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Block Number of Flat/Apartment
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: Does a block number of a flat/apartment have any significance in feng shui audit? The feng shui luck comes from the house interior and exterior surrounding layout. So the location of where the block is located and how it faces is more important than the unit number or apartment number. So you should focused a good layout or good surrounding rather than just the number. You should only consider the unit number only after you have made sure the house and surrounding are good. ie if there is two units of the same layout and facing direction, but one on higher or lower floor. Then you can check which unit number is better. Otherwise, block or apartment number comes as the least overall important compared to the location of the block. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Is Advertising a fire element career?
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: Can a strong water with no fire element in her chart pursue in fire element career? Does working in an advertising firm consider a fire element career? Fire is considered wealth element to a Strong Water person. So yes, a fire element career will good for a Strong Water person. Advertising is considered Water element. So a Strong Water person will not benefit from Advertising as a career. Fire element is more like Marking or Sales. Unless you are doing more of sales related career, then it will be beneficial. Check out our talk notes for more details about the five element and career. URL: http://talk.geomancy.net Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Self Element
Dear Anon, Name: Anon (Female - 02 Apr 1972) D.O.B: Lunar (1972, 2nd month, 19 day) at 7.00 a.m. to 8.59 a.m. Pillar Heavenly Stem (HS) Earthly Branch (EB) Hour Day Month Year Life Conception Element Strength Percentage % Rating(!-- Recommendation --> 5 Water Weak 44 % Reduce Element(!-- Have less of your Unfavourable Element --> 1 Wood Strongest 14 % Acceptable (Increase Element)(!-- Have more of your Most Favourable Element --> 2 Fire Strong 23 % Balance(!-- Enough --> 2 Earth Extremely Weak 5 % Increase Element(!-- Have A LOT more of your Favourable Element --> 2 Metal Weakest 11 % Acceptable (Increase Element Favourable Elements: Metal (11%) + Water (44%) = 55% Unfavourable Elements: Wood (14%) + Earth (5%) = 19% This is why you are Strong Water and not weak Water. Yes, though you are generally born ina season that your water is weak, but with 5 weak water it is already 44%. So this is a lot compared to the number of elements. Thus, you are a Strong Water. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Self Element
Dear Anon, May I know what is your gender, date and time of birth? Frankly, our analysis does a very indepth analysis of a person's ba zi, meaning it breaks down all the element into percentage then from the percentage evaluation it will evalute whether a person is weak or strong. This is done through determing your seasons of birth, combinations of elements and lots more. I am not able to comment on your previous reading done. As I have seen many other masters who analysis is so brief that the birth element strength will not be properly determined. So this is very likely the case here. That is why they determined you as a weak water instead of strong water. All I can say is that if the free report determined you as a Strong Water,than it means that the percentage of your favourable Metal+Water will be greater than Wood+Earth. Fire since it is a double edged element ie destroy your Metal and exhust Wood so is considered neutral and thus cannot be used to side either favourable or unfavourable elements. The only difference between free and paid report, is that the free report will not show you the detailed percentage breakdown. Only the basic information. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Lack of Earth element in Ba Zi
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: 1. My husband Ba Zi is seriously lack of Earth element and there is more Earth element in mine. Will this help/benefit him in any manner? If yes, for how long? Nope. The five element present in your own bazi chart cannot be shared. However, if your husband lacks earth, and you are a weak/Strong Earth for example, than yes you will be giving him some strength. Anonymous wrote: 2. Despite his Ba Zi chart shows wealth luck since 27yrs old, his financial status is getting from bad to worst especially since I stopped working in 1997(in S'pore)and came back to Malaysia. Ba Zi only shows you your heavenly given luck. If luck in your ba zi does not match your current luck, that means your heaven luck is adversely affected by your Earth Luck (House) or other Human Luck factors as well. This means you need to check your home luck which will probably be the other major reason why you are having issues. This is why each feng shui tool will help you trouble shoot. Sometimes problems comes from ba zi given luck, most of the time it is from your home and other factors. Only when you know where is the problem, then you can attempt to resolve the situation. Anonymous wrote: 3.He is a very stubborn and weak characterman (always bullied by friends and family members but taking full advantage of my kindness and love for him)who doesn't believe in Feng Shui where else i am very much into it. Personal characteristics are considered Human Luck, sometimes even if the person's luck is very good etc, but if a person is too hot tampered, lack determination, lazy etc, such negative characteristics will also mean that that person cannot be able to fully take advantage of his given luck. No one else but himself can help himself. Anonymous wrote: 4. I don't know why i stick to him the past 11 years but i am getting very frustrated and felt like a fool in the marriage. I have sacrificed alot (giving up everything in S'pore, and legally can't work in M'sia) contributed a lot in all aspects to the marriage. I havealways earn more than him till i stopped work in 1997. I have depleted all my savings since 2 years back, constantly asking for financial help from my family in S'pore. Despite all my efforts, no appreciation from him and his family; instead always get the accusing fingers.. 5. Iam like a "mud buddha" crossing the river now (with so much health problems and penniless now), but he is so used to the luxury that i have given him all these years. He just simply make no efforts to improve on himself and still waiting for me to solve all his financial problems. Sorry for such a loing winded message, i am desperately looking for advices. Sorry to learn about your situation. No sure what advise to give you here, really. I mean the thing I can see is that if there are lots of existing tensions between the two of you, it would be obvious that there isn't going to be harmony within the house itself. Harmony is the key in Feng Shui being able to get the maximium amount of luck from your environment. ie if everyone feels good at home, they feel happy, work better. But if you feel bad, distress it will affect everything from work to family relationship. So unless something is worked out between the two of you, really it is going to be hard to enjoy the fruits of your labour. I mean in terms of feng shui, you can only attempt to fix or correct flaws once you determine what it is. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Auspicious Numbers part 2
Dear Oliv, Oliv Sullivan wrote: Question: If someone's house number is, as an example, 90 and their Kua number is 1, is there any benefit to penciling in a 1 to make the house number appear as if it is 190 or 901 (which would add up to a 1) even though it is really not? However, in your mailing address it will still be written as 90 right? So it is not going to really help instead it may make your postman frustrating to locate your home. As mentioned in many other post, auspicious number is really subjective and different people have different preference. I can tell you some people dislike 4, but there are others who will love it. The luck of a home does not come from the unit number as much as from the home and external feng shui itself. Thus, number of a home has least overall impact compared to other factors. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Rsearch
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Suitable house facing direction & 4 bad direction
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: If I provide you with the bazhi details of all my family members, would you be able to offer your service to advise the house facing directions suitable for all of us and the best location of the house, i.e. N, S, E or W of Singapore? How much does this service cost? Remember, that for a new house the breadwinner should be suitable to the main door, while the rest of the family should have a suitable bedroom. Usually, we providea similiarsummary analysis as part of a value added service for the full onsite / offsite audit in our what we call a group summary report which summarise the entire family detail into a single report. This is currently not available as a report that users can purchase or access from our website. If you are really interested to access it, e-mail me at support@geomancy.net, I will see what I can work out for you. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Help....how do I determine true 'Front Door
Dear Steve, Steve Jhun wrote: I'm a first timer on the theories of Feng Shui and I really enjoy this site. I'm planning to purchase a home. Based on the 8 house chart, I'm a SE person, and the true front door faces NE. However, I recall reading somewhere that if I primarily use the garage door entrance to the home, I should be using that as the Front Door. Firstly, glad that you enjoyed the website. For the facing direction of the house, you need to first check if your home is an apartment or landed property. We have laid down some new guidelines so that users will not be so confused about the facing direction anymore:- URL: http://www.geomancy.net/resources/art/art-cecilcompass.htm 1. Landed Property - Take facing direction from the frontage of the house usually the living room or main door you enter. 2. Apartments (2nd-7th level) - Take main door direction of door. 3. Apartments (8th level and up) - Take the living room / balcony direction. This should minimise the confusions that most users have. In in doubt, you can attach a layout to help you check. Steve Jhun wrote: From the center of the home, I can not see the door that connects the garage to the home. One thing to note is that the garage door to the house upon entering the home is facing SW. Would I consider the home a SW or NE facing home? Either way, NE (Death Line) or SW (Spook) isn't that a bad sign and I should not purchase the home? Since you mentioned you have a garage, then your house should be considered the option 1 landed property. Then you need to determine which is the front of the house. Take the facing direction based on the frontage of the house. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Coins
Dear Roeland, Roeland de Looff wrote: On different Feng Shui sites I seesets of 6 I Ching coins advertised. An example is the below: http://www.fengshui-emporium.com/C04.htm Would this be an example of a working remedial measure for the 5? Yes, that is considered one of the traditional 6 coins so it can be used. The use of 6 singapore coins is only possible in singapore (for those who cannot obtain the normal 6 coins). However, sometimes it is best to also make sure the colour scheme within that sector doesn't contain too much Fire (red) or Earth (Yellow). Best to keep such sectors which need metal (white) if possible. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Auspicious numbers
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: We have a variety of choices -- however, I've been reading that 2's, 6's. 8's and 9's are auspicious. Several numbers that we're considering are: 208; 116; 278; 268 and 186. Generally, for auspicious numbers, there are many many ways to look at it. Finding numbers that contain the numbers you mentioned are generally good.Particularlly, 6 in hokkien prounciation which means luck. 8 is Fa in cantonses prounication which is prosper. 9 is for like jiu or longevity. Thus, anynumber which has these numbers tend to be more auspicious. Most of the time people try to link the numbers together to get the meaning (if possible), or as long as there is the 8 or 6 these are already considered good like 86 - prosper and luck or 68 luck and prosper. Most will definately like 88 (fa and fa) is like Prosper and Prosper. 4 to chinese especially cantonese is die. But to some western like the lucky 4 leave clover is good. So really there is many ways to look at auspicious or inauspicious number. There is also another way is use your Kua number ie 9, then you add up the number 208 = 2 + 0 +8 = 10 = 1+0 = 1 so if this is the same as your Kua number it is auspicious for you. So there is really thousand and one ways to look at auspicious numbers.It is really ultimately up to you which is better for you. As long as you like the number, it really does not matter too much how you interpret the meaning. It is really a matter of personal preference. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Facing direction of attached plan
Dear Anon, Anonymous wrote: Could you advise the facing direction of units 06-19 to 16-19 in the attached layout plan? Since your home is on the 6th floor, the definition of the facing direction for apartments between 2nd-7th storey is to take the main door facing direction. Units06-19/07-19 should be North-East taken from the main door. Please use a compass to more accurately get the degree. I am just judging from the North direction, didn't really use a compass to find the degree. Units 08-19 to 16-19 should be taken drom the facing of the living room which will be North-West facing direction. Anonymous wrote: What sectors do the bedrooms considered to fall into? Find the centerpoint of the unit, then divide the sector accordingly. If based on my rough division of the unit, then Master Bedroom should be North-West, Bedroom 2 is North, Living Room is North-East, Bedroom 3 lies between East and South-East. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research
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Confused
Dear Sam Yeong, Sam Yeong wrote: 1) is it true that no water should be placedat NE in period 8? what if there is ws8 there? Really depends on what are the stars in the sector. To say that NE should not place water feature is just like saying that everyone's SW sector is the romance corner. It is best you do a full flying star analysis of the sector before you place or use any enhancements. Sam Yeong wrote: 2) is it true that no water should be placed in the center palace of the house as it has a similar effect as a toilet in the center? Yes. Center of the house is the flux of all influence, as such it should be kept empty. As such, it should not have a toilet, fish tank etc. Such items will have similiar effect. Sam Yeong wrote: 3)In BaZhi I'm an earth person, water suppose to be my wealth element.I'm also a kua6 person, is it true that wood is also my wealth element? There is only one element that is considered your wealth. And that is based on your ba zi element. If you are a Earth person, then the element you destroy is your wealth element. Eight House can only tell you the suitability of a sector. It is not the best way to determine the element because it only uses YEAR of birth. As such, its accuracy is limited. Whereas Ba Zi is more accurate as it does analysis from the date of birth and even time of birth. Thus, even though Eight House also has it's own Kua number, it is not used in the same way. Hope that helps. Warmest Regards Robert Lee GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

